My Top 21 - Life Experiences, Summarised!

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1.Some habits “can” change overnight, it depends on the state you are in. Tip: You must be conciously ready to make the change happen. Simple!
2. Some routes we take everyday for years change overnight and we don’t feel nostalgic when we pass through that route again! Tip: Detach the emotion linked to that place and you will see the magic yourself.
3. A once very special person can get replaced too, we just need to push ourselves a little bit and work on developing stronger emotional muscles, not just physical muscles. Tip: The love that passes by, it’s a passé.
4. We nurture weeds in the form of people, relationships, habits, thoughts etc. Sometimes we even know it but dont do anything about it! Tip: Take a step today and start clearing these weeds from your life! Take help from professionals/ friends if required. You can thank me later :).Â
5. Listen to elders/ experienced people from your relevant field. Don’t push them away as outdated. Tip: Again, don’t listen to every one, use your discernment. Its a double edged sword but it works :).
6. Surround yourself with positive people.  Likewise negative people drain away our positivity, so keep them away. Tip: Choose your circle of influence wisely and consciously :).
7. Emotions with people are relevant with time. An individual who makes a comeback after their time has passed by is only a character from the past. Tip: What is gone is gone ;). Â
8. We have a desire to do many things but we postpone them waiting for the right time. Sometimes we miss the present waiting for the future (which is not guaranteed). Tip: Start something today, life might surprise you :).


9. It is true that certain things make sense to us only when we are ready for it. Till such a time, all that knowledge is only noise to our ears. Tip: Time to get ready?
10. One of the ways to forget a bad relationship is to make a concious attempt to get into another one (but after being in a positive state of mind)! Tip: Irrespective of whether its a hit or a miss case, either way you move out of something that serves you no good. Its tough but the universe appreciates your effort and might reward you sooner 🙂
11. Take out time for your hobbies/ interests. Sometimes they lead you to a different path altogether. Tip: Try something new today?
12. Accept not to expect same emotions from all individuals. This keeps us in a happy state, no expectations zone. The give and take ratio between two individuals will not always match. i.e we may not get back the same love we give to someone but the universe knows this and will always gives us back what we deserve, maybe through someone else. Tip: Stay positive 🙂
13. Dont expect all people to be the same, otherwise you may have not liked them in the first place at all! Tip: We will make some mistakes but thats all right :).
14. It’s good to have a mix of friends from all circles – work, hobbies, sports, college friends etc. Tip: This way you have different topics to discuss with everyone, different places to see/ go to. It breaks monotony.
15. Accept every new individual/ friend the way they are. We all are here to learn from one another. Tip: Only from different people can we learn different things!
16. Be strong enough to accept situations and to let it go. Tip: Take it as a bad experience, as a learning, also necessary for our peace of mind.
17. Always trust that everything happens for a reason, and it’s for our good/ betterment. The universe has bigger plans for us, which we may not understand many a times. Tip: Just trust and let go :).
18. Take major decisions with your family support and a few close friends, no one else matters!Â
19. Be open to try new things, welcome new beginnings whole heartedly.
20. Start every new relationship with a clean slate. Never let the past haunt or judge a new relationship. Tip: Take precautions but dont let past experiences hold you back.
21. Be compassionate towards the needy ones. You are their closest God at that time, you are answering their prayers. Tip: Help them in whatever capacity you can.